I haven't had a chance to post about my journey to Happiness Love and Wisdom yet. Until today!

One thing the book stresses is to not let things bother you, especially the little things! Well I thought I was doing particularly well, I let things go and you know what? It felt great. It's like getting rid of unnecessary suffering. I would usually get really irked if dishes were not put in the sink or trash not in the trashcan. Recently however, I've just put everything where it should go myself. It didn't cost me a lot of time (seconds really) and I texted everyone a (nice) reminder. You attract more bees with honey right? So all was going well until last night, as I am typing I am hanging my head in shame, but I will share my story with you all.

So last night was the Giants/Dodgers game at 7 p.m. (pacific time) and was totally bummed to find out it was blacked out in my area. I immediately got online and looked up the game on our provider's website and it said it wasn't blacked out! I told my dad to tune back to see if it still had the message. I wasn't looking at the television screen as he did it, but somehow the game came back on. I was so happy! Until the first commercial. My dad decided to change the channel to check out a bit of bicentennial celebration for Mexico's Independence Day, before he did though I warned him "don't do it, we might not get the game back". Well he changed it anyway and like I had predicted the game didn't come back, it gave us the same blackout message. Now at this point I lost all sense of "letting things go" I told him things I am now embarrassed to even type, I said things like "you should've listened" "I told you not to" "now we won't see the game because you changed it". I immediately went online to chat with a customer service representative (didn't help) and calmed down. I didn't say much afterwards, but I immediately thought to myself "what the heck is your problem? it's not a big deal".

So that is my story of my shall we call "fail"?

I hereby promise it will not happen again for at least 3 days (small goal yes, but it is one I know I can keep). Maybe it's my guilt or sense of failure (probably both), but I am so sure I can control myself. Maybe it was bottled up and he was the outlet. If that's the case then I seriously need to read more of Buddha's Brain. I again encourage you all to follow my journey and hopefully take something away from it for use in your lives and pursuit of Happiness Love and Wisdom.

Don't let small things anger you, if it can be fixed then fix it, if it's not important then don't worry about it. Don't let anger turn you into another person, it's not worth it. La paz es amor.

Happy Thursday!


firepages said...

Oh this is my weakness. I can handle big problems in stride, but small problems completely unhinge my nerves. A lot of my frustration comes from stupid computer problems and Microsoft Word trying to auto format my interview questions. I'm trying to just relax (like that's a super easy thing to do) more, especially since I have a doctor's appointment next week. I don't want stress to raise my blood pressure.

Dancing Branflake said...

So true! So much wisdom in this post. Sometimes I just need to breath and keep going. Stop when I can. Love all the time.

Rachel said...

Sometimes I think people just get caught up in the moment and it becomes hard for those little things to not have an impact. But it's very important to not let those things become a big issue. Those little things are never the end of the world.

Hope you have a great weekend!

Cafe Fashionista said...

I won't lie...there have been times when I've freaked out over the tiniest things. Later on you can't help but to laugh about the ridiculousness of it all. Taking a deep breath and just releasing everything is always a good way to free yourself. :)

Maddy said...

Umm...hello! I had a mini-meltdown this week because I asked my husband to make me waffles (feeling lazy) and he said no. What followed was a big tantrum like that of a toddler! Lol! I kid you not...over waffles! We have since made up and laughed about the whol thing, but we have banned waffles from our vocabulary ;) Don't sweat it! We all do it sometimes :)